october 16th Day 7 not knowing

How many times do you take someone to the toilet
(actually lift him from a chair and onto a toilet)
when he say's "I have to go to the bathroom"
when he never goes to the bathroom
on the toilet?

If it was simple.... comfortable
I would put him on the toilet every time he asked.
If he were like... bubble sized
there would be no problem

but he ways 180 pounds
and often tries to hit me
when I am helplifting him up

and then while sitting on the toilet
and saying
"I have to go to the bathroom"
again and again and again
but not going to the bathroom
(18 minutes last time)
and at the same time
complaining about how uncomfortable it is
and trying to stand up on his own

Do you just let him wait
until he goes to the toilet in his diapers?

Do you attempt every time to sit him on the pot

do you maybe ... like the lottery... choose the moments when he would most likely succeed
when you think its the luckiest time?


What do you do!!!!